No privacy and dignity in this documentary!!
Saturday, May 24th, 2008Mum and Me shown at 10.35pm on 20th May was billed as a documentary that was ‘jolly and uplifting’ about a mother suffering from Alzheimer’s disease.
Complete horror was felt when the mother ‘Ethel’ was shown on Christmas morning sitting on the toilet with the daughter cleaning the floor round her as she gaily announced that Ethel had peed on the floor.!!
If any person in a home, or being cared for at home by a service provider was found so blatently ignoring the privacy and dignity of the person they were caring for, all hell would break loose. Why is it acceptable for someone to have their privacy and dignity disregarded just because they are the mother of the documentary maker?
Why was this shown on national television and pronounced by some newspapers as being laudable……it was nothing more than insulting to those of us who strive to protect the privacy and dignity of those who are cared for…..never mind the individual herself.
Please show a little respect when filming those suffering from dementia. This was a week when Ivan Lewis held his ‘Privacy and Dignity’ web chat, it seems sad that whilst the message is being put out loud and clear to those in the caring professions, those outside appear to think filming older people sitting on the toilet is acceptable…it is not.